Friday, December 01, 2006


Recently, I heard someone make the following statement:
"I'm pro-life personally, but I don't think it's right to force my belief onto others. I mean, we all have free will so we should be able to make our own decisions, right?"
This is essentially the same position that I've heard other people take by saying,
"I would never have an abortion myself, because I think it's wrong, but who am I to tell other people what they should do?"
Let's be honest here. If that is what you believe, you are either a coward or you are by definition pro-choice, NOT pro-life.

A coward: if you truly do believe that abortion is wrong, but are unwilling to stand up for that belief by stating that it's wrong for other people too, not just yourself.

Pro-choice: if you really think it's best that people make their own decision about what to do with an unplanned pregnancy, and you consider abortion a valid option to consider. If you believe abortion is a choice best left to the individual to decide, then you are pro-choice, plain and simple. Claiming to be pro-life with this opinion is a complete fallacy.

I understand that there is a place of wrestling in between these two points, where
you really don't quite know for sure where you stand on the issue. There may be a sense of dissonance between what resonates as true (life is precious) and your lack of ability to articulate why you believe that. That kind of wrestling is not what I'm calling cowardice or lying.

I'm just saying - be honest with yourself. If you think it would be wrong to kill a baby in your womb, then abortion is wrong for other people, too. If you like to call yourself pro-life, but say that people should be able to make their own decisions, then you are saying that people should make the choice.......which means you're making a pro-choice argument. If you are uncomfortable with claiming the pro-choice "label" for yourself - why? Since that is inherently what you say that you believe, why do you want to identify yourself otherwise? Is it possible that you really don't think that people should choose to have abortions, but you just don't feel like you can tell them that? If that's the case, you're back to cowardice.

I am Pro-Life. Abortion is wrong. And I am not afraid to say so.


  1. "I am Pro-Life. Abortion is wrong. And I am not afraid to say so."

    Amen. Pretty cut and dried. I don't understand the moral ambiguity that some people demonstrate. There is such a thing as right and wrong and most of us have the capacity to tell the difference. Some have chosen not to differentiate.

  2. Yes! Amen! Pro-life is pro-life by definition important because it is an INHERENT TRUTH. It is not just a matter of opinion.

  3. Thank you Jesus for cool people like Sara!And real pro-Life stance! I want to B-sit Abigale this week, Tues, Fri, Sat, or Sunday? Let me know K! I sure like you people, and I want to keep tabs on what you're up to! How's that baby cooking?
    How are you feeling?

    a wind blown,
    John 3:8

  4. You go girl! I completely agree! And it bothers me that politicians mince words, when it appears that they are PRO-LIFE, just to appeal to the other side. Take a stand, man!

    I know I've told you before that I desparately want to have twins someday, and I have for a long time. A few years ago, my mom learned from a friend that the friend's daughter had just aborted twins. Mom and I were so sad...especially knowing that we would be estatic to have twins, as I'm sure a lot of adoptive parents would.

    This girl was not a very young girl, she was a college student about to enter grad school, and she just didn't want to be bothered with kids. I can understand that she felt she wasn't ready for the responsibility herself, but she could have given someone else their dream of having children if she just would have taken care of the babies for 9 short months.

    I'm sure that she will at some point struggle with her decision, and I pray that she finds peace and forgiveness, but I will always be sad that a set of twins was never given the chance to live.